Because They're Going to the Chapel and They're Gonna Get Married - the Night Before the Night Before, a Small Gathering to Tap Glasses

...and I'm just a guest...which is a great location to reside.

Patrick and Stephanie are marrying on Saturday. Yesterday, I went and got clothes for the wedding because, truth be told, I've only dressed up from the waist up over the last year, and this is a real gathering, with real people, for a special occasion. A new sport coat, slacks, a new shirt, and then not just one, but two new pairs of shoes (I'll decide what pair will be best once Saturday morning arrives).

Leo, Bev, and I went to Pam's after she assisted my shoe shopping (besides, Karal needed an out-of-house experience). I brought over burgers, beans, but forgot the buns, but Pam had a tomato salad, so while she putzed forward with her pre-wedding work, I put together a plate that looked more gourmet than it actually was.

...and it was delicious...

And Chitunga called and said, "I need to get something to wear for the wedding," I headed home quickly and we went to shop, Crandall style, and got him several shirts, a vest, and pairs of pants (he has to work, too). 

Then he and I sat in the driveway of Mt. Pleasant, talked life, and caught up on his work, my work, Syracuse, Karal, and how quickly the life swirl goes on and on and on.

Inside, Karal found a lacrosse ball to play with. 

So, here's to all parents, everywhere, who have dedicated resources, finances, and time to the happiness of their kids, especially those who are encountering wedding expenses. Phew. 

I never got the gifts that come from showers, and weddings, and the what-not, and I told Chitunga, "Dude. It's a big economical advantage to have so many friends and family to invest in your future. Get married, so all that shebang comes your way."

And then I handed him the garage-sale find of Cherry Heights, the refurbished table, and $10 investment, and said, "Well, this is how I've always rolled. Sorry I'm not so fancy."

He laughed. I laughed. And on Saturday, we're going to dress up and be fancy for an evening with friends and people we enjoy and love.

Ah, but Friday...I have a teacher institute to run next week after the 4th of July comes to a close. I'm on my computer all day today.