A Lil' Mini-Adventure to Stamford Yesterday. New Apartment, New Life, Why Not Gift An Early Surprise to Kick-Off the Holiday Cheer

I wasn't sure how well it would go over, but Chitunga did mumble that he went looking for a tree for his apartment, but they were pricey. I've been keeping my eyes open, so when Kaitlyn Kelly said Friday night, "Mom. I think I'm going to donate my old tree to Goodwill," my ears perked up. I inquired, "What if we do a surprise trip to Stamford and help Chitunga to set up his first apartment so he can spend the rest of December with a smile?"

They were in. We each bought ornaments, and I stopped to get Christmas pillows for his couch, holiday table cloths, and a nice gnome blanket to snuggle in as he looks at his tree. Roy let us in, as Chitunga was out, but we had most of it up for when he entered. He was surprised, had a huge smile, and immediately took over the decoration. 

In response, he took us to lunch in the Harbor Yards, and we had a fantastic meal. I went for brunch as I love breakfast food, but rarely get it. The open omelet with mushrooms, potatoes, peppers, bacon, and cheese was amazing, as was the side arugula salad. I did very well. 

When I lived in Kentucky, I remember saying to many people that a really cool side-hustle business would be to partner retirees with people just starting out....so many stored items in the basement that they probably could use. Kaitlyn's not retired, but she did have this pencil tree (her first for her own apartment) and it was perfect for the apartment in Stamford. 

It was a gorgeous day, too. So thankful to the kindness and friendship of Pam and her kids. Also grateful that Chitunga sees them as extended family in Connecticut. I think before the day ended, Pam convinced him he needs to come over for a pajama party and Hallmark movie festival. Kaitlyn, I believe, added with Polish Polka and holiday tunes. I'm not wondering about a perfectly pointless Polish polka pajama party for the holidays. It could happen. 

So blessed to have this kid in my life, and also to be surrounded by people who choose love, kindness, support, and laughter as their own life mission. 

I know, from this year onward, Chitunga will put up these decorations and think of home, all while building a home for himself. I admit, it was hard putting up the tree alone this year and somehow I knew he'd ask, "Why didn't you bring the Pam angel for the top of my tree." We told him, "Oh, we can make you one." 

We will. 

We should also note that Tunga has lights put up in the apartment that change colors. He put them on before we arrived, and everything in the apartment came together at once. So wonderful. So beautiful. Such a special moment in time.